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Copy of Men's POV: What Men want in Dating/Relationships
Don’t worry---I also think about what a woman needs too---but that is another article coming out soon. Yes, I understand dating and a relationship is a two-way street, so please don’t think I’m ignoring this from a female standpoint.Providing dating consulting and dating coaching services since the 1990s, I’ve been fortunate to listen to tens of thousands of singles and help with online dating. At the moment, I have more male clients in their 40’s to 70’s that I am working with weekly, so this
What I overheard on a 1st Date: Why do men do this?
I hear this from women constantly- “why do men dominate the conversation on the first date”? And, I’ve heard this for over 25 years. It’s not recent. In my old days, running It’s Just Lunch, (a matchmaking service I started in 1991) clients were required to report in after their first date. Our phones would go crazy around 2pm (generally the end of their lunch date). Some Common Comments: He was so cute, but never asked a single question about me. I feel like I know his entire life stor
'7 Traits of People Who Succeed in Relationships: Insight from a Dating Coach'
Sure, it would be absolutely wonderful if we possessed all these traits---but life is about growth. Success and failure are what define who we are and who we become.Just as no one is “perfect” (and who wants perfect, anyway?) neither are we perfect. I know I’m not. I just read a list the other day of 15 attributes you want in the person you marry---and while I was thinking of my upcoming marriage, I didn’t get close to hitting all 15. When I thought of Jeff, I thought wow, he has all 15. Bu
Discouraged with dating? Make these 3 changes now
Different choices bring about different outcomes.Dating can be tough. Love isn't always easy. Relationships take effort. It's normal to feel disheartened if things aren't going the way you hoped in your romantic life. Today, I'll talk about some factors that might be hindering your search for "the one." Making some adjustments could lead to more positive outcomes.You know the old adage: the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.When I
When's the best time for Online Dating?
https://youtu.be/asjGDP5OEzQThere is quite a bit out there on when is the best time to date----as a dating coach working with clients for over 25 years, here's my take on the best time for online dating.It's a quick video versus a long article. And, there's data to back it up.Happy Dating....there's no reason to wait.You can schedule a free 15-minute call with me at Https://www.33000Dates.com/free-callI look forward to chatting...Andrea McGinty Founder, 33000Dates
Ten Questions: One Online Date to Marriage
Photo courtesy WSJ Ten Questions: From a First Date to MarriageHappy Saturday, all! This is a monthly column I write with a client answering 10 questions. Today, it’s from Debbie*, 66-years-old, an attorney from Palm Beach Gardens, Florida. My first Zoom call with Debbie was about 6 months ago in September 2023. What initially struck me about Debbie was her creativity, kindness and close-knit friend
First Date Conversation Topics
Let's dive right into the dating world! As a dating coach, I often get asked about what to talk about on a first date. Sometimes, my intelligent and lovely clients share their planned topics with me after we've reviewed their profiles... and I must say, I'm a bit shocked.I always give my clients direct advice. No, no, no. You can't say that! After all, I want you to meet "the one" and make a great impression.1. The PastEarlier today, I had a call with a new client at 7:30 am. She went on a first
10 Dating Turn-Offs Dating Coach
Think you do any of these things? Score yourself at the bottom. Photo courtesy of TodayWith over 25 years helping singles, divorcees and widows with dating while they use my dating consulting services, I’ve identified several traits that your date will definitely find unattractive. Are you aware of these potential characteristics you may have? For most people, no. Maybe this will help and give you a good, long think.Yes, no one is perfect nor should you strive to be. Yo
Matchmaking Success: A Love Entrepreneur’s Journey
By Arthur Lee The Entrepreneur Hub Arthur Published today: https://medium.com/the-entrepreneur-hub/matchmaking-success-a-love-entrepreneurs-journey-e276e57f7b13?sk=6c97b62c35f255500106832b6b38b5e6Today’s article introduces Andrea McGinty, an entrepreneur with a unique journey starting in the early ’90s, before the era of Google and online dating. After a personal setback, she spotted a gap in the dating market, leading to the creation of It’s Just Lunch, a pioneering matchmaking service, and la
Debunking Dating Myths
Plus real photos that get results….Oh, this is going to be an exciting article! As a dating coach, my week is filled with joy as I assist clients in navigating the world of online dating. And let me tell you, the theories I hear from clients are quite interesting, but most of them are simply fiction. I firmly believe in facts and research, and I hope that by sharing them, you'll feel more optimistic about the dating scene. Let's start with some facts and real examples from my clients' experienc
New Dating App "SCORE" Finds Love in Good Credit ScoresOnly those with a good credit score can join the dating app "SCORE." Matchmaking expert Andrea McGinty says that's a great idea Top Dating Coach
New dating app "score" Top dating coach Andrea McGinty founder of 33000dates.com and Itsjustlunch.com comments for Kiplinger's article on new dating App Score
Once a Year Sale
Annual End of January Sale! 30% Off all Plans -Use Code: WINTER24 Good thru February 4, 2024 Time to get your dating life rocking and rolling and there's no better time than now! To gain access to this sale, you need to book a 15-minute call with Andrea McGinty. This ensures that we are a good fit and she will ask you a few questions (and you can ask her questions too, of course). There are two ways to book your call: Use this Link. Text Andrea directly at 702.494.7344 and request a time/date
Rock Anti-Valentine's Day: 10 tips
While it may be a far-off 18 days from now, the comments and questions I received this week---were crazy! From the fun ones from those in relationships---what should I get him/her for a gift? To---Andrea—do you think I’ll have a date on Valentine’s Day? Oh, February 14---love it or ignore it! It makes me think of the movie Love Actually and all the types of love in the world---romantic, unrequited, familial, love across languages and races, love despite status, love after death, brotherly lo
Online Dating Messaging Tips.....and Mistakes
Click above to watch this 2-minute video or read below---I like my videos short, sweet and direct. One of the most requested topics. Messaging. We have all been there, found a person we really like, matched with them, clicked on their profile, and then… suddenly… blank? Uhm… what do I say? Hi? You’re pretty? Is that too much? Let’s just put a simple “Hi”, yes Sent. No Reply? Darn it! It’s alright, you’re not alone in this, most of my clients struggle with messaging. “Messaging and online dating
Online dating: Why haven’t they responded to my text message?
(From The Notebook) This question comes up daily----as a dating coach sometimes 5-6 times per day when I am online with a client on a dating site. You sent a lovely and uniquely crafted message a few days ago. And it feels like it fell into a black hole. Where is he/she and why haven’t they responded? Ok, let’s start with a fact: According to national research companies (I didn’t use the dating sites statistics as there might be a built-in bias), Pew and Gallup agree that around one in seven
Ready to reset? 10 Dating Tips for 2024
It just may be time to reset the alarm on your dating life. Since we don’t come with factory settings, it’s not as simple as Control. Alt. Delete. And it’s common knowledge that New Year’s resolutions last…. well, not long. The majority of people think about them---but don’t actually write them down and actively pursue them. If they do, they’ve gone to the wayside in a few weeks statistically. So, here’s some ideas to think about as you review 2023 and look forward to 2024: 1. High Yield Tas
2024 Dating Outlook & 2023 Dating in Review
So, what are some of the most obvious trends for dating in 2024? 1. Living Apart Together This trend has truly taken off! You may be looking for a committed relationship---but just not cohabitating. According to the US Census Bureau’s study of 2022 dating habits, 3.89 million singles in their 40’s through 70’s are embracing this trend. Have I noticed this with my clients? You bet---read about this later in this article! 2. Settling Down—Differently What does that mean? According
Dating Tips for 2024
Since we know the majority of New Year’s Resolutions fall to the wayside by the end of January (a whopping 75%), let’s skip them this year regarding your love life! Ok, if you sign up for a long-term gym membership and are paying the big bucks on a one-year contract, you’re more likely to go to the gym…right? Maybe. Plans, resolutions, and strategies without accountability generally fail….so let’s jump right into some 2024 Dating Tips from your dating coach (Just as an aside, online dating ex
Tis the Dating Season---7 Reasons
According to a recent USA Today study, between December 26 through February 14, it’s peak online dating season. I agree, after going through this season for over 25+ years. More people than ever are looking for a partner during this time of year than at any other point---it doesn’t matter if you’re freezing in Colorado or in sunny California. Dating is hot! Dating someone new during the holidays can be a bit tricky. So, here I go with some tips as a long-time dating coach: 1. Be upfron
December Dating Dilemmas
Hi, everyone! I thought maybe a video today would be best---so I made this for you after having dating on the brain-----and the same question everyone has been asking me for the past week: Should I do online dating in December or wait 'til after the holidays----?? And a few other things.... Warmly, Andrea McGinty Dating Coach and Relationship Coach
Two Men: Advice and Thoughts on Online Dating
All day long, as a dating coach, I help my clients with online dating…and hear some interesting perspectives. Today, I am featuring two men who went through the online coaching program with me and who agreed to an interview to share their thoughts, ideas, misgivings, feelings, and advice to others on online dating and the best approach. And, I must make a comment here for my women readers----Some tell me over and over again on weekly coaching calls as we are perusing potential dates online— “O
5 Questions to Ask Anyone You Are Dating…or NOT!
I go back and forth with shock, surprise, and awe at what singles talk about on first dates. The things I hear as a dating coach. It ranges from reticence to forwardness which can be just off-putting. There’s a balance, friends! OK, now I want you to be you. Not a robot. Not going in with a prepared list of questions. And certainly not to be a wallflower just listening away as your date talks ad nauseam! So, what are the things we need to figure out from what some call “the first meet” and I
Tired of Dating Apps, Some Turn to ‘Date-Me Docs’ by The New York Times
New York Times https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/02/style/date-me-docs.html#:~:text=Writers%20of%20the%20online%20text,than%20a%20swipe%20might%20allow. Caution: These can be dangerous as 50% of women had poor luck or were threatened. It's the 20-something age group trying these in major cities. Tired of Dating Apps, Some Turn to ‘Date-Me Docs’ Writers of the online text profiles, which can read like 1,000-word versions of the personal ads of yore, hope for a more meaningful connection than a s
5 mistakes: Giving up on online dating
Are you ready to throw in the towel? Feeling frustrated and discouraged? Well, hold your horses because there's a little something you might have missed. Studies have shown that most people give up on online dating after just two attempts. But let me ask you this, did you quit golf after two lessons? Did you toss out your tennis racquet? I didn't think so! Now, I've been in the dating game for over 25 years, helping people navigate the treacherous waters of love. I'll even do six coaching calls