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The four important skills. | Pratik Jain
(The following piece has a video and text version). Text Version: There are four rare inner skills every man should focus on to elevate themselves in life and their relationships with women. The following skills will also be needed in your journey to become good with women. 1. Developing awareness of the Map within Each ... Read more The four important skills.
Follow this practice to overcome brain freeze in conversations with women... | Pratik Jain
Start making things up as often as you can, as a way to ignite a conversation, especially with salespeople, receptionists, bartenders (if you have their attention), or anyone in a casual encounter. Here’s a small example: Earlier today, while paying my bill at the airport, I told the girl behind the counter, “You reminded me ... Read more Follow this practice to overcome brain freeze in conversations with women…
What are the best places to meet and mingle with women for dating, love and marriage? | Pratik Jain
Introduction: This is such a huge problem for men. One of the top 3 questions I get asked is, “Where should I meet women?”. In fact, one of my favorite questions to a potential client is “How do you encounter women?” There are a multitude of reasons for such a problem to exist: Now, it ... Read more What are the best places to meet and mingle with women for dating, love and marriage?
What are the best places to meet and mingle with women for dating, love and marriage? | Pratik Jain
Introduction: This is such a huge problem for men. One of the top 3 questions I get asked is, “Where should I meet women?”. In fact, one of my favorite questions to a potential client is “How do you encounter women ?” There are multitude of reasons for such a problem to exists: Now, it ... Read more What are the best places to meet and mingle with women for dating, love and marriage?
Do we inherit confidence, or do we earn it? | Pratik Jain
Introduction: Very recently, I stumbled upon a Reddit thread where a guy was making a point that men who have always been attractive-looking are naturally confident, because they were consistently given positive feedback by women, friends, and family. With him, however, the case was the opposite. He was complaining about how people around him who ... Read more Do we inherit confidence, or do we earn it?
How Men Transform in Bangkok Coaching Sessions.. | Pratik Jain
On August 18th, 2025, I completed my third work trip to Bangkok in less than three months. Each successive trip has been more rewarding—not only for me but also for my clients. As I’ve grown familiar with the city, my ability to coach here has advanced significantly, allowing me to deliver deeper transformations in a ... Read more How Men Transform in Bangkok Coaching Sessions..
How to become a Man who is Confident with women? | Pratik Jain
Before diving into the heart of the topic, let me clarify what I mean by the term “confident.” In this context, confidence is the ability to express oneself freely with a woman, someone who is grounded in a strong conviction about what and how one represents. It also means being free from shame or guilt ... Read more How to become a Man who is Confident with women?
If a girl is looking 👀 at you across the room... What should you do? | Pratik Jain
Note: There is a podcast version also of this content at the bottom of the page. “She Was Looking at Me… Now What?” I’ve been told this countless times by men: “That girl was looking at me,” or “She keeps making eye contact with me.” But here’s the catch: most men don’t know what to ... Read more If a girl is looking 👀 at you across the room… What should you do?
A guide for dating women outside India for Indians/NRIs males... | Pratik Jain
As I have been travelling abroad to coach Indian men, my interest in this niche topic has piqued quite a bit. (Indian men dating non-Indian women). Indian men abroad, whether NRIs or tourists, are up against genetically advantaged men. In addition to that, they have to deal with the perception game of being an Indian, ... Read more A guide for dating women outside India for Indians/NRIs males…
How to become a Man who is Confident with women? | Pratik Jain
Before diving into the heart of the topic, let me clarify what I mean by the term “confident.” In this context, confidence is the ability to express oneself freely with a woman, someone who is grounded in a strong conviction about what and how one represents. It also means being free from shame or guilt ... Read more How to become a Man who is Confident with women?
A guide for dating women outside India for Indians/NRIs males... | Pratik Jain
As I have been travelling abroad to coach Indian men, my interest in this niche topic has piqued quite a bit. (Indian men dating non-Indian women). Indian men abroad, whether NRIs or tourists, are up against genetically advantaged men. In addition to that, they have to deal with the perception game of being an Indian, ... Read more A guide for dating women outside India for Indians/NRIs males…
Why Some Men Struggle to charm women? | Pratik Jain
How often have I heard, “What’s the point? This is not going to go anywhere,” or “She is not my type,” or “She has a boyfriend”? This is in the context of flirting with a girl, trying to chat her up, or inviting her to join, etc. Over the years of coaching, I have learned ... Read more Why Some Men Struggle to charm women?
How Self-Talk Shapes Masculinity & Confidence | Pratik Jain
Every man carries an internal voice. For most, this voice is not uplifting–it’s self-defeating, limiting, and discouraging. It tells you that you’re not good enough, not attractive enough, or that you might come across as a creep. It convinces you that you’ll be rejected, dismissed, or judged–so you hold back, retreat, or second-guess yourself. This ... Read more How Self-Talk Shapes Masculinity & Confidence
Managing the voices in your head. | Pratik Jain
Audio Version below: Just the other day, my client called me, sounding worried and disappointed. His anxiety was skyrocketing because he was about to meet a girl for the first time the next day to explore a serious relationship. They had been talking on the phone for a week, but now the anticipation was getting ... Read more Managing the voices in your head.
What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating | Pratik Jain
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of coaching men from all walks of life and across various age groups. Each age bracket brings its own mindset, challenges, and energy to the process of learning about women, attraction, and self-expression. Here’s what I’ve consistently observed about men—and clients—within different age groups: Ages 23 to 27 ... Read more What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating
Develop the MIND to have a free flowing conversation with women. | Pratik Jain
Note: There is a podcast version of the below transcript at the bottom of the page. Do listen to that also. One of the most common challenges Pratik hears from clients is this: “I don’t know what to say.” “What should I talk about?” This is a tricky area–because verbal communication isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s subjective, ... Read more Develop the MIND to have a free flowing conversation with women.
Permission to "Feel": Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man. | Pratik Jain
Audio Version below: At the outset, I’d like to acknowledge that the title of this piece is inspired by Dr. Marc Brackett’s book, Permission to Feel. Women may immediately grasp what I’m getting at here, while men might find it a bit abstract at first. That said, this is written primarily for myself as a ... Read more Permission to “Feel”: Becoming an Emotionally intelligent man.
Why do engineers have a tough time with women... | Pratik Jain
I am in my 8th year as a Dating Coach in India, and engineers have been a constant in my professional life. I have dealt with all sorts of engineers of different branches, with different age groups, cultural backgrounds, and economic abilities. I have observed certain constant patterns among engineers crop, resulting in them having ... Read more Why do engineers have a tough time with women…
Subcommunication - Where the attraction begins and continue. | Pratik Jain
Audio Version below: I’m often asked, “What’s the ONE piece of advice you’d give men to effortlessly connect with women?” My usual response is, “There isn’t just one—I wouldn’t want to oversimplify it.” But the other day, while discussing attraction with a client, something clicked. I found myself saying, “It all comes down to subcommunication—the ... Read more Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.
If a girl is looking 👀 at you across the room... What should you do? | Pratik Jain
Note: There is a podcast version also of this content at the bottom of the page. “She Was Looking at Me… Now What?” I’ve been told this countless times by men: “That girl was looking at me,” or “She keeps making eye contact with me.” But here’s the catch: most men don’t know what to ... Read more If a girl is looking 👀 at you across the room… What should you do?
Way of Men: Becoming Open, Expressive, and Natural Around Women. | Pratik Jain
Note: There is a podcast version attached at the bottom of the page. Do listen to that also. I had a guy come to me seeking coaching. Before coming to me, he had already worked with one classical PUA coach. I spent some time with him before officially signing him up for my coaching. During ... Read more Way of Men: Becoming Open, Expressive, and Natural Around Women.
The hidden female communication explained. | Pratik Jain
Imagine the following scenario: A man is sitting alone in a café on a quiet Monday late afternoon. At the next table, a woman is also seated by herself, casually browsing her phone with a cup of coffee beside her. She doesn’t appear to be in an intense or guarded mood—just relaxed, neutral. The man ... Read more The hidden female communication explained.
Way of Men: Becoming Open, Expressive, and Natural Around Women. | Pratik Jain
Note: There is a podcast version attached at the bottom of the page. Do listen to that also. I had a guy come to me seeking coaching. Before coming to me, he had already worked with one classical PUA coach. I spent some time with him before officially signing him up for my coaching. During ... Read more Way of Men: Becoming Open, Expressive, and Natural Around Women.
If a girl is looking 👀 at you across the room... What should you do? | Pratik Jain
“She Was Looking at Me… Now What?” I’ve been told this countless times by men: “That girl was looking at me,” or “She keeps making eye contact with me.” But here’s the catch: most men don’t know what to do next. The common advice you’ll hear is: “Go and approach her.” Some might suggest the ... Read more If a girl is looking 👀 at you across the room… What should you do?
The hidden female communication explained. | Pratik Jain
Imagine the following scenario: A man is sitting alone in a café on a quiet Monday late afternoon. At the next table, a woman is also seated by herself, casually browsing her phone with a cup of coffee beside her. She doesn’t appear to be in an intense or guarded mood—just relaxed, neutral. The man ... Read more The hidden female communication explained.
Develop the MIND to have a free flowing conversation with women. | Pratik Jain
Note: There is a podcast version of the below transcript at the bottom of the page. Do listen to that also. One of the most common challenges Pratik hears from clients is this: “I don’t know what to say.” “What should I talk about?” This is a tricky area–because verbal communication isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s subjective, ... Read more Develop the MIND to have a free flowing conversation with women.
Art and Science of Self-Talk; Important tool to become a better Man. | Pratik Jain
Every man carries an internal voice. For most, this voice is not uplifting–it’s self-defeating, limiting, and discouraging. It tells you that you’re not good enough, not attractive enough, or that you might come across as a creep. It convinces you that you’ll be rejected, dismissed, or judged–so you hold back, retreat, or second-guess yourself. This ... Read more Art and Science of Self-Talk; Important tool to become a better Man.
What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating | Pratik Jain
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of coaching men from all walks of life and across various age groups. Each age bracket brings its own mindset, challenges, and energy to the process of learning about women, attraction, and self-expression. Here’s what I’ve consistently observed about men—and clients—within different age groups: Ages 23 to 27 ... Read more What I’ve Learned Coaching Indian Men Across Ages: Surprising Patterns in Male Growth and Dating
Managing the voices in your head. | Pratik Jain
Audio Version below: Just the other day, my client called me, sounding worried and disappointed. His anxiety was skyrocketing because he was about to meet a girl for the first time the next day to explore a serious relationship. They had been talking on the phone for a week, but now the anticipation was getting ... Read more Managing the voices in your head.
Subcommunication - Where the attraction begins and continue. | Pratik Jain
I’m often asked, “What’s the ONE piece of advice you’d give men to effortlessly connect with women?” My usual response is, “There isn’t just one—I wouldn’t want to oversimplify it.” But the other day, while discussing attraction with a client, something clicked. I found myself saying, “It all comes down to subcommunication—the underlying message you ... Read more Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.
How my in-person coaching works... | Pratik Jain
I always thought that seduction was an effort – about saying the right words and playing the right games..But with time I learnt – The real seduction is an Energy shift, not something you do..It’s about existing in full and undeniable power rather than overextending and performing..The work lies in coming to a place as ... Read more How my in-person coaching works…
Permission to "Feel": Becoming a perceptive man | Pratik Jain
At the outset, I must inform that the title of this piece has been inspired by a book with the same name, “Permission to Feel,” by Dr. Marc Brackett. Women may quickly get a sense of what I am trying to say here, but men may find it abstract in the first read. Nonetheless, this ... Read more Permission to “Feel”: Becoming a perceptive man
Why do engineers have a tough time with women... | Pratik Jain
I am in my 8th year as a Dating Coach in India, and engineers have been a constant in my professional life. I have dealt with all sorts of engineers of different branches, with different age groups, cultural backgrounds, and economic abilities. I have observed certain constant patterns among engineers crop, resulting in them having ... Read more Why do engineers have a tough time with women…
Social Poverty, it's curse and how to get out of it.. | Pratik Jain
I have been a dating coach in India for 8 years now. I have lost count of number of men I have coached over these years. I have had fortunate opportunities to coach men of all age groups (17 -50) and across different socio-economic hierarchies with diverse upbringing. However, my maximum coaching involved men who ... Read more Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..
A Brief Note On Dating Apps. | Pratik Jain
RESEARCH SAYS THAT AMONG MANY FACTORS THAT MAKES A MAN ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN IS HIS ABILITY TO PROVIDE FUTURE RESOURCES. (ESPECIALLY FOR LONG TERM MATING) AND BEING QUITE GOOD LOOKING AND VISUALLY APPEALING HELPS IN SHORT TERM MATING.. NATURALLY COMBINATION OF ABILITY TO PROVIDE FUTURE RESOURCES AND VISUAL APPEAL IS THE KILLER FACTOR. ABSOLUTE INTELLIGENCE ... Read more A Brief Note On Dating Apps.
Understanding Social Mediums. | Pratik Jain
This post is for the segment of audience who are at a stage/phase of the life of meeting new women to mingle, date, etc.. In my experiences as a coach, I have observed that men have a very limited understanding of how the nature of social mediums plays a significant role in determining the fate ... Read more Understanding Social Mediums.
What I learned about men over the years as a dating coach? | Pratik Jain
Let me begin with a caveat. My views are limited to experiences I had with men whom I got to interact with and observed as a coach. Of course, there are subset of men who live a different life, have different mindset, story, experiences and never thought of reaching out to people like me. So ... Read more What I learned about men over the years as a dating coach?
There is this "One Woman" in most Men's life.. | Pratik Jain
Many years back, probably 18 years ago, I had a dear friend in my college who was dating this girl. He was absolutely smitten by her. So much so, that during our 12th grade board exams (most important exams till that time) he used to travel to pick her up from her place ( which ... Read more There is this “One Woman” in most Men’s life..
To Be Respected or Likeable... | Pratik Jain
In mid 2000’s there was a popular T.V. show named Sopranos. The primary character was played by James Gandolfini as Tony Soprano, a mafia boss. In the T.V. show James character was portrayed as a man respected by all, even feared to some degree. So, why am I bringing this to your notice here? Well ... Read more To Be Respected or Likeable…
Girls and Nightclubs... | Pratik Jain
Source: A Note to Men, Instagram. There is this notion, if a man wants to meet girls (in offline setting) he must go to nightclubs/bars. And it makes sense if you think about it. The volume of women is good, the context is social and the guards are down. Yet, something is elusive about nightclubs/bars ... Read more Girls and Nightclubs…