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Managing the voices in your head. | Pratik Jain
Audio Version below: Just the other day, my client called me, sounding worried and disappointed. His anxiety was skyrocketing because he was about to meet a girl for the first time the next day to explore a serious relationship. They had been talking on the phone for a week, but now the anticipation was getting ... Read more Managing the voices in your head.
Subcommunication - Where the attraction begins and continue. | Pratik Jain
I’m often asked, “What’s the ONE piece of advice you’d give men to effortlessly connect with women?” My usual response is, “There isn’t just one—I wouldn’t want to oversimplify it.” But the other day, while discussing attraction with a client, something clicked. I found myself saying, “It all comes down to subcommunication—the underlying message you ... Read more Subcommunication – Where the attraction begins and continue.
How my in-person coaching works... | Pratik Jain
I always thought that seduction was an effort – about saying the right words and playing the right games..But with time I learnt – The real seduction is an Energy shift, not something you do..It’s about existing in full and undeniable power rather than overextending and performing..The work lies in coming to a place as ... Read more How my in-person coaching works…
Permission to "Feel": Becoming a perceptive man | Pratik Jain
At the outset, I must inform that the title of this piece has been inspired by a book with the same name, “Permission to Feel,” by Dr. Marc Brackett. Women may quickly get a sense of what I am trying to say here, but men may find it abstract in the first read. Nonetheless, this ... Read more Permission to “Feel”: Becoming a perceptive man
Why do engineers have a tough time with women... | Pratik Jain
I am in my 8th year as a Dating Coach in India, and engineers have been a constant in my professional life. I have dealt with all sorts of engineers of different branches, with different age groups, cultural backgrounds, and economic abilities. I have observed certain constant patterns among engineers crop, resulting in them having ... Read more Why do engineers have a tough time with women…
Social Poverty, it's curse and how to get out of it.. | Pratik Jain
I have been a dating coach in India for 8 years now. I have lost count of number of men I have coached over these years. I have had fortunate opportunities to coach men of all age groups (17 -50) and across different socio-economic hierarchies with diverse upbringing. However, my maximum coaching involved men who ... Read more Social Poverty, it’s curse and how to get out of it..
A Brief Note On Dating Apps. | Pratik Jain
RESEARCH SAYS THAT AMONG MANY FACTORS THAT MAKES A MAN ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN IS HIS ABILITY TO PROVIDE FUTURE RESOURCES. (ESPECIALLY FOR LONG TERM MATING) AND BEING QUITE GOOD LOOKING AND VISUALLY APPEALING HELPS IN SHORT TERM MATING.. NATURALLY COMBINATION OF ABILITY TO PROVIDE FUTURE RESOURCES AND VISUAL APPEAL IS THE KILLER FACTOR. ABSOLUTE INTELLIGENCE ... Read more A Brief Note On Dating Apps.
Understanding Social Mediums. | Pratik Jain
This post is for the segment of audience who are at a stage/phase of the life of meeting new women to mingle, date, etc.. In my experiences as a coach, I have observed that men have a very limited understanding of how the nature of social mediums plays a significant role in determining the fate ... Read more Understanding Social Mediums.
What I learned about men over the years as a dating coach? | Pratik Jain
Let me begin with a caveat. My views are limited to experiences I had with men whom I got to interact with and observed as a coach. Of course, there are subset of men who live a different life, have different mindset, story, experiences and never thought of reaching out to people like me. So ... Read more What I learned about men over the years as a dating coach?
There is this "One Woman" in most Men's life.. | Pratik Jain
Many years back, probably 18 years ago, I had a dear friend in my college who was dating this girl. He was absolutely smitten by her. So much so, that during our 12th grade board exams (most important exams till that time) he used to travel to pick her up from her place ( which ... Read more There is this “One Woman” in most Men’s life..
To Be Respected or Likeable... | Pratik Jain
In mid 2000’s there was a popular T.V. show named Sopranos. The primary character was played by James Gandolfini as Tony Soprano, a mafia boss. In the T.V. show James character was portrayed as a man respected by all, even feared to some degree. So, why am I bringing this to your notice here? Well ... Read more To Be Respected or Likeable…
Brief Note on Cold Approaching... | Pratik Jain
The following post was originally published on my Instagram handle (A Note to Men), for which I have added the link below. Source : Instagram Link Offcourse there are times when a man sees a particular woman (it can be anywhere), and he can instinctively feel that he must approach her and take this forward. ... Read more Brief Note on Cold Approaching…
Bar Scene: Break Down. | Pratik Jain
Follow these Steps: Watch the full clip. Read the breakdown of the clip. Re-Watch the clip. Breakdown of the clip. Scene: Bunch of friends/colleagues in a bar having dinner and drinks. One of the guys, let’s call him Guy A spots an attractive woman by the bar counter with her friends. With some encouragement from ... Read more Bar Scene: Break Down.
Two A's...(Attraction - Arousal) | Pratik Jain
This Post is primarily written for Heterosexual Men: Men often wonder how to attract a particular woman . But hardly any guy raises a question on how to arouse a particular woman or what in general arouses a woman. And this is simply because most men are not aware of the distinction between the two. ... Read more Two A’s…(Attraction – Arousal)
The Dimensions of Instinct and Intellect. | Pratik Jain
We have a past, present and future. Instinct is what belongs to our animal past. It is very old, solid; it is the inheritance of million of years. While intellect is human, belonging to our present. We mostly function through our intellect. All our sciences, all our businesses, all our professions are based on our ... Read more The Dimensions of Instinct and Intellect.
Why current generation lacks Social-Courting-Dating skills. | Pratik Jain
Let’s go back to older days, maybe half a century back. What were the avenues for a man and woman to meet, mingle and get together? In western world, some would say churches, weddings, ball room parties, neighborhood bar, community, common friends, offices, colleges and universities. In eastern world it would be roughly the same ... Read more Why current generation lacks Social-Courting-Dating skills.
The Magical And Most Powerful Sensory Organ... | Pratik Jain
There is an old saying about Eyes: A human eyes have a unique capacity to look both inwards and outwards, One can close his eyes in meditation and look inwards, while with open eyes he can see outwards. Of all the five senses, sight is the most important in courtship-mating-romance-relationships dynamics. Usually for both men ... Read more The Magical And Most Powerful Sensory Organ…
Know your "Why" | Pratik Jain
Imagine this Scene: You are in a club by the bar counter with a friend of yours. Three girls are standing next to you. You comment to your friend, “Hey let’s talk to these girls”. Your friend nods and you turn around say something. And girls response mildly. Maybe you all continue talking or not. ... Read more Know your “Why”
Reframing 'Rejection'... | Pratik Jain
Reject in literal sense means to ‘cast away’ which has been further evolved (in 1530’s) into ‘throw away as undesirable’. But the impact of being rejected has repercussions in human’s bones that no literal phrase can encapsulate it. We live in a world where idealistic living is imposed on people. There is this constant narrative ... Read more Reframing ‘Rejection’…
Girls and Nightclubs... | Pratik Jain
Source: A Note to Men, Instagram. There is this notion, if a man wants to meet girls (in offline setting) he must go to nightclubs/bars. And it makes sense if you think about it. The volume of women is good, the context is social and the guards are down. Yet, something is elusive about nightclubs/bars ... Read more Girls and Nightclubs…