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Speak, Earn, Inspire: 3 Proven Tips to Monetize Your Public Speaking Passion
Recently, I've received an increasing number of requests for advice on how to get paid for public speaking. Often, these are from individuals who have attended my workshops, eager to learn how I carved out my niche in this field. I always strive to provide actionable advice, and I encourage you, the reader, to also reach out. To assist a broader audience, here are three pivotal tips for entering the world of paid public speaking. 1. Understanding the MarketWhen entering public speaking, one of t
From Nervous to Noteworthy: Insider Tips for Delivering Powerful Speeches
Recently, a friend and colleague reached out to me for guidance. They were nervous about an upcoming keynote speech and unsure how to deliver it effectively. Having given numerous keynote speeches myself, they sought my advice to help calm their nerves and ensure their presentation would be memorable. This conversation inspired me to share three fundamental tips to enhance your effectiveness as a speaker and ensure your message resonates powerfully with your audience.Tip 1: Seek Objective Feedba
Motivational Interviewing for Florida Families: Empowering Parents and Children
Parents always seek ways to foster growth, change, and independence in their children. That's why I recently conducted a training session for the community, introducing the principles of Motivational Interviewing (MI) as a tool for Florida families. This blog post explores how MI can be a transformative approach for enhancing family dynamics. Over the past few sessions, held at locations including SPC College and the Boys and Girls Club, we've shared these tools not only with parents but also wi
How Communication and Collaboration Impact Interpersonal Relations
About a year ago, I contracted with the City of Tallahassee to provide training on Interpersonal Relationships in the workplace. Since then, I've gained a wealth of knowledge about how interpersonal skills influence organizational culture, coworker relationships, and overall team motivation. My experiences have inspired me to share my insights through this blog.Defining Interpersonal SkillsWhat is Interpersonal Communication? Interpersonal communication is the process through which people exchan
Inspiring Change: 5 Insights Gained from Hosting Community Events
On April 18th, I hosted my sixth community event aimed at parents and professionals. This was a no-cost event primarily funded by my company, which absorbed about 90% of the costs related to marketing and materials. My goal was to raise awareness about tools and techniques that inspire and to create a platform for community members eager to make a difference.The events were successful, drawing around 300 attendees across six sessions—one virtual, two in Pinellas County, two in Highlands County,
What I Learned from Writing and Publishing My First Book
The phrase "You should write a book" was a regular refrain from my friend and inspiration, Hope Cross. Despite the encouragement, I struggled with the idea, weighing the benefits against the enormous time commitment. However, a year after embracing my role as a tiny superhero's parent, I found the right motivation—and I finally did it!I’d love to say it was easy. I’d equally love to say it was hard. Truthfully, it was both. Here are four key lessons from my journey of writing and publishing a bo
24 Goal Ideas For 2024: Take the one-per-month challenge!
In December, we set goals; in January, we take steps towards them; in February, we go on a goal sabbatical; and in March, we say in December, we will set new goals. What if, this time, we committed to setting one short-term goal per month for six months? Pick one short-term goal from each category below, identify a month you will complete it, and our brain will reward us with motivation and encouragement! Print this page and track your progress! Every goal you ever gave up on was partly because
14 Powerful Lessons after 14 Months of Being a Dad
At dinner, my wife was telling a story about her father. When she finished, my little one scooted closer, put her head on my shoulder, and said, “My daddy is this guy right here.” NO. WORDS. Fourteen months ago, I became a first-time father. Not by traditional means, as my wife and I are unable to have children biologically. Still, these unfortunate circumstances ultimately led us to our tiny superhero, which is, quite simply, EVERYTHING. I've learned having a child is similar to the plot of Mig
The Moral Dilemma of Using Empathy: When Does It Become Detrimental?
Two of my neighbors had a heated argument (Mark and Kevin). They were screaming so loud people began coming out of their homes to observe the interaction. Later that night, Mark (allegedly) went across the street and tossed a brick through the windshield of Kevin’s 1972 Ford Mustang Classic. A car that was passed down to Kevin after his father died. The conflict escalated until charges were made, resulting in Mark eventually moving. At the height of the incident, another neighbor approached me a
9 Ways Be More Patient with People (and yourself)
On November 20th, 2022, I thought I understood what it meant to be patient. Three hundred sixty-five days later, I am writing this blog with an understanding that patience is not just trusting the process; it's how you behave when it doesn't go your way. In this article, I will discuss 9 ways to add patience to your personality and explain how to manage your mind in the most emotionally challenging times. If you are impatient and wish to skip to the 9 WAYS, click here. 😉😉 (Before reading any
Motivational Interviewing Tips: 4 Ways We Promote Change
Speak4MC, LLC was created because of Motivational Interviewing (MI). Whether I was doing an unannounced visit at a client's home, presenting a performance improvement plan to staff, or de-escalating a 3-year-old on her third piece of Halloween candy, MI consistently proves to be the most potent approach to inspiring change. Since creating Speak4MC in 2021, I have trained upwards of 10,000 professionals in person and virtually across 17 states. However, like any skill, the power of MI is dependen
Unleashing Your Inner Creativity: Five Strategies to Foster Thinking
Creativity is often regarded as a skill bestowed upon a few. However, the truth is that being creative is something anyone can do. In today's purpose-driven world, where innovation is key, unlocking your creative genius is who you want to be. This article will challenge us to take five essential steps to unleash our creative minds and become the version that’s the best. 1. Embrace the Power of Control: To tap into your creative potential, being fully present is the key. You need to cultivate a
3 Ways to Break Free from Your Comfort Zone
How often do you think about your morning? 🤔 How often do you think about what you think in the morning? 💭 How much did you learn this morning? 🤷♂️ How much would a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could? 😱 Sometimes, it is expected to feel stuck or stagnant, as if we're trapped in a monotonous routine that offers no room for personal growth. 😪 The dreaded comfort zone, while seemingly cozy, can hinder us from achieving our full potential. Worse, it allows us to justify our lack of learning
The Psychology of Competition: Unleashing Your Team’s Full Potential
"I hate to blow my own horn, but I gave a lot of people fits" - Bo Jackson What is Motivational Interviewing? The 80% Rule What is the locus of controllability? The Importance of Self-Awareness and Locus of Control The Locus of Causality Locus of control quiz Undoubtedly, physical talent is part of the equation when achieving success in competition. One such example is Bo Jackson, the first athlete to be named an All-Star in two major American sports and ran the fastest NFL 40-yard dash ever. St
Happy Birthday: 39 Incredible Life Lessons Learned Before 40
“Bro. That must have been a heavy sock.” It is official. Today, I turned 39, and the milestone of turning 40 is approaching. This realization caused me to reflect upon a recent conversation. Friend: Are you going to the gym? Me: No, I strained my back pretty bad. Friend: What happened? Me: I reached down to pick up a sock. Friend: That must have been a heavy sock. Me: (Hangs up) At this moment, I discovered an essential lesson about stretching and socks. I also wondered how honest I should be wi
Mike Evans: Harry Potter, Humility and Helping Others
“My best teammate?” McCoy said. “A guy like Mike Evans.” 12 years, four different organizations, and relationships with hundreds of players, yet when two-time Superbowl champion LeSean McCoy was asked about his best teammate, he said the following: “My best teammate I’ve ever had — that doesn’t make him my best friend, but my best teammate — a guy like Mike Evans. This dude’s a great person,” McCoy said. “He buys stuff for the starters, buys for the practice squad, everybody. Holidays, Christma
Motivational Interviewing in the Workplace: Better Employee Engagement and Motivation is Possible
“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid." The question I have for you at this point of our journey together is, What is your genius?" – AE Affirmations, empowerment, and open-ended questions! Perhaps Albert Einstein was the first person ever to use Motivational Interviewing! What is Motivational Interviewing? The Importance of Achievement. MI and Staff Retention. Creating a Non-Judgemental Workplace. Givin
Another Meeting? How to Stop Boring Your People at Work
"Let's start by conserving our time and stop having these stupid meetings. No more meetings! No more meetings!" – Pam from the Office Meetings are critical for an effective workplace but often can become monotonous and unengaging. We all have experienced the dreaded virtual meeting where everyone stares blankly at their video, checks their phones, and "accidentally" turns off the cameras. What about the mandatory weekly conference room meeting that never starts or finishes on time, repeating the
Confirmation Bias, Empathy, and 4 Ways to Escape Jurassic Thinking
“You were so preoccupied with whether or not you could; you didn’t stop to think if you should” – Ian Malcolm Jurassic Park. Have you ever watched a scary movie and then began hearing noises at night? After a tough breakup, is every song on the radio about heartache? Have you ever argued strongly about voting rights, marriage, immigration, etc., and then indulged in articles, new stories, and like-minded people who agree with your perspective? The good news is that you are normal. The bad news i
How to Teach Toddlers Empathy Through Active Listening
Me: Any feedback on how to avoid major toddler meltdowns? Child Therapist: Have you tried empathy? Me: (Scoffs) Do you know who you are talking to? I host training on empathy all the time. Of course, I know how important empathy is. Child Therapist: But have you tried empathy with your toddler? Me:…….. Um Modeling empathy allows children to understand and connect with the feelings of others. It creates trust, respect, and understanding, reducing defensiveness and anxiety. It is crucial in formin
Empathy and Self-Care: Understanding the Magnitude of Managing Feelings in Relationships
"It's me, hi, I'm the problem, it's me. At teatime, everybody agrees." – Taylor Swift. We all have work or personal relationships where you must collaborate with the other person to complete a larger goal. But what if they attempt to manipulate or trick you into believing they have your best interest at heart each time you interact? What if instead of working towards a common goal, they were trying to get what they want, regardless of how it might affect others? Perhaps they project kindness and
Improve Program Engagement Immediately: The Role of Motivational Interviewing
"You never give up on kids, and you never gave up on me." – Adolescent on probation. As I sat in the school's conference room across from an 18-year-old who had been involved in the juvenile justice system since he was nine, I wondered how we got here. We had spent three months together, and his progress toward goals, such as getting a job and reducing his drinking, had been sporadic at best. He talked of quitting our program and would blame others for his lack of progress. Yet, here we were, si
Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking: Practical Techniques
“His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy. There's vomit on his sweater already, mom's spaghetti” – Eminem. Public speaking is a common fear many individuals struggle to overcome, even megastars like Marshall Mathers. The thought of standing before a crowd and delivering a presentation can be intimidating, causing anxiety and nervousness. However, with a few basic techniques and guidance, anyone can conquer their fear of public speaking or, even better, use it to their advantage. In 4th
Empathy: The Most Important Blog You Won't Read Today
How values and the way we frame them impact our choices Let's picture an imaginary person named Veronica. Veronica was raised in a small rural town in Mississippi. Eager to start over, she moved to Florida and began searching for an opportunity to make a difference. She met her husband, a police chief from Georgia, and soon after adopted four children. In her free time, she leads parent support groups, volunteers at church, and runs a mentor program for at-risk youth. She loves watching dinosaur
8 Tips to Deal with Dishonesty
Dishonesty is real, be it intentionally or unintentionally dealt. It may peek its ugly head for selfish purposes or rise with protective motives, such as telling a white lie to protect someone’s feelings. Sometimes, dishonesty explodes into full Jack Nicholas mode, screaming, “YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH!” No matter what brings about the lie, its morality fluctuates based on each person’s perspective in a given situation. This blog is inspired by people who tell half-truths to maintain hold of s
3 Quick Tips for tough Situations
Horses wear blinders to reduce their field of vision and stay focused on their tasks. Angry adults wear blinders to maintain their worldview. A reasonable person with an extreme worldview inspired this post. 1. Consider their perspective: During a train-the-trainer for VPs of a local non-profit, one of the trainees voiced their displeasure with my teaching style. "Just because you are the trainer doesn't mean you know everything. Maybe you should learn more yourself", she said with the entire cl
4 Ways Power Struggles Make You Powerless
To be candid, I am experiencing one of the most challenging power struggles in 38 years. I entered it unknowingly, and it's exhausting. However, like any crisis or setback, it has inspired me to take action and write this blog. Perhaps, I can share what is occurring in the coming months, and I do look forward to that conversation. For now, let's talk about power struggles and the four ways someone attempts to get you into them. (And a few ways you can get out) First, let's get one of the biggest
1 Simple Tip to Trigger Change: No Potato
Did you know I decided to go Keto? If not, it’s probably because it lasted one month and didn't include beverages, condiments, or coffee sweeteners. What happened? Why did I fail? Why don't they make carb-free mozzarella sticks? All great questions. First and foremost, anyone who goes all in on a new change deserves tons of credit. I follow some physical fitness groups on Facebook, and every day there is a post about someone starting a new diet, struggling with their current one, or asking if th
3 Tips to Stop Giving Bad Advice
1 – Timing matters Advice, even if helpful, can be viewed as an insult or attack if given at the wrong time. Unfortunately, we often offer advice when it feels right to us without considering if the timing is best for them. For example, in my early 20's, I was stranded on the side of the road with an ex-girlfriend. Something was wrong with my car, and I couldn't figure it out. It was starting to rain, we were late, and I was becoming frustrated. As I began to dial my dad to see if he could assis
3 Tips to Positively Influence Your Clients
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2 Things you Must do when Interviewing for a Promotion
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275 Reasons to get Uncomfortable: How to battle adversity
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